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The Book of Lost Friends by Lisa Wingate

The Book of Lost Friends

A Novel

by Lisa Wingate

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  • Apr 2020, 400 pages
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From the bestselling author of Before We Were Yours comes a dramatic historical novel of three young women searching for family amid the destruction of the post–Civil War South, and of a modern-day teacher who learns of their story and its vital connection to her students' lives.

Bestselling author Lisa Wingate brings to life startling stories from actual "Lost Friends" advertisements that appeared in Southern newspapers after the Civil War, as newly freed slaves desperately searched for loved ones who had been sold away.

Louisiana, 1875: In the tumultuous era of Reconstruction, three young women set off as unwilling companions on a perilous quest: Hannie, a freed slave; Lavinia, the pampered heir to a now destitute plantation; and Juneau Jane, Lavinia's Creole half sister. Each carries private wounds and powerful secrets as they head for Texas, following roads rife with vigilantes and soldiers still fighting a war lost a decade before. For Lavinia and Juneau Jane, the journey is one of stolen inheritance and financial desperation, but for Hannie, torn from her mother and siblings before slavery's end, the pilgrimage west reignites an agonizing question: Could her long-lost family still be out there? Beyond the swamps lie the limitless frontiers of Texas and, improbably, hope.

Louisiana, 1987: For first-year teacher Benedetta Silva, a subsidized job at a poor rural school seems like the ticket to canceling her hefty student debt—until she lands in a tiny, out-of-step Mississippi River town. Augustine, Louisiana, is suspicious of new ideas and new people, and Benny can scarcely comprehend the lives of her poverty-stricken students. But amid the gnarled live oaks and run-down plantation homes lie the century-old history of three young women, a long-ago journey, and a hidden book that could change everything.

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  1. Lisa Wingate brings to life stories from actual "Lost Friends" advertisements that appeared in Southern newspapers after the Civil War, as newly freed slaves desperately searched for loved ones who had been sold away. Had you heard of the real "Lost Friends" ads before? What did you think of the words written so long ago? What did you learn about the Reconstruction era through this novel?
  2. The Book of Lost Friends is a story of remarkable women who built legacies we benefit from today. There are many women from the past, like Hannie, who do not often make it into our history books. Who is one woman from history that you greatly admire and think that the world should know more about?
  3. What lessons does Benny learn from her ...
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...tell so I'm liking this clip to the finish. (overall, her Migrations was a better read to me) And then, for my next month's book club, we are reading The Book of Lost Friends by Lisa Wingate. We are trying to include a few selections this year that recall defining eras in our country's history, what with it being our 250th anniversary. Th...
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My book club would really enjoy discussing this book. We like historical fiction that highlights an event in history that is not well-known. The Book of Lost Friends by Lisa Wingate comes to mind.
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What is your book club reading in 2025?
...le: A GENTLEMAN IN MOSCOW by Amor Towles - July 2024 THE SPECTACULAR by Fiona Davis - August 2024 CLARK & DIVISION by Naomi Hirahara - September 2024 THE BOOK OF LOST FRIENDS by Lisa Wingate - October 2024 THE DAY THE WORLD CAME TO TOWN by Jim Defied - November 2024 THE MAIDENS by Alex Michaelides - December 2024 THE DUTCH HOUSE by Ann Pa...
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"Wingate makes history come alive... . Historical fiction fans will appreciate the authentic articles and the connection between modern times and the past, while adventure lovers will enjoy a voyage reminiscent of Huckleberry Finn." —Booklist

"Emphasizing throughout that stories matter and should never go untold, Wingate has written an absorbing historical for many readers... . Enthralling and ultimately heartening." —Library Journal

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Lisa Wingate Author Biography

Lisa Wingate is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Before We Were Yours, which remained on the bestseller list for fifty-four weeks in hardcover and has sold over 2 million copies. She has penned over thirty novels and coauthored a nonfiction book, Before and After with Judy Christie. Her award-winning works have been selected for state and community One Book reads throughout the country, have been published in over forty languages, and have appeared on bestseller lists worldwide.

The group Americans for More Civility, a kindness watchdog organization, selected Lisa and six others as recipients of the National Civies Award, which celebrates public figures who work to promote greater kindness and civility in American life. Booklist summed up her work by saying, "Lisa Wingate...

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